5 days agoNo more blaming the kidsHow speaking respectfully to my children changed my life. I learned through harsh experience that some of the things my parents said to me were toxic. They left scars. I thought that I would never speak that way to my own two sons, but the words leaked out anyway. When…Conscious Parenting5 min read
Jun 19Are struggles over family dinner exhausting you?How to cook for your kids for years without resentment or burnout. — I’ve cooked for my family almost every day for the last 21 years. My husband doesn’t like cooking and isn’t interested in it. My two sons were never interested in cooking either. It wasn’t something they were drawn towards. We had some fun times cooking a few batches of biscuits and pancakes when they were young, but they never wanted to explore further.Family Meal5 min read
Jun 10Homeschoolers: Do you want to be stuck in a stressful role?When you’re raising a child, society expects you to take on a certain role as a parent. I found many of the expectations and responsibilities that came with being a conventional “good mother” extremely stressful. Especially since my eldest child just wouldn’t cooperate with the role of “good boy.” He…Unschooling4 min read
May 30Why I laughed when my son called me a f**king b*tch.I used it as an opportunity to unlearn the power of words. — “You f**king b!tch.” These were the words I heard multiple times a day from one of my dear sons. I can laugh about it now. I wasn’t laughing at the start. When these words first started coming from his lips I was challenged. Very challenged. I got upset. …Swearing3 min read
May 23Are you teaching your child to believe in scarcity?When we fight with them in the toy store, we don’t stop to think what we’re really teaching our children — Money is a big, scary topic for so many of us. It can be confronting to notice our beliefs around money and resources (and the lack thereof) and how we are passing these on to the next generation. At a certain point when my two sons were young I became…Parenting5 min read
May 15Conscious Parenting — It’s the solution to all your parenting problemsAre you sitting on the fence, not knowing which way to go in your parenting journey? Maybe you’ve been doing all the “attachment parenting” things with your young child, but it’s all become much harder now that they’ve grown a will of their own and are asserting it? …Conscious Parenting8 min read
May 8My two sons have forgotten Mother’s Day and I’m delighted.It’s the evening of Mother’s Day, I’ve got two grown sons and neither of them have spoken to me today. My eldest son who is 21 lives in a nearby city and my youngest, now 17 still lives at home, although mostly in his bedroom. It’s clear that they either…Mothers Day3 min read
Apr 24Are you freaked out by your son’s anger?There are few things more challenging than angry meltdowns or tantrums. I used to get really freaked out by them. What do I mean by “angry meltdown”? I’m talking about an explosion of intense emotion that may include hitting, swearing and screaming. …Tantrums4 min read
Apr 23My amazing and devastating holiday in the Australian Outback.To spend time in the Australian Outback is to bathe in magnificence and devastation. I’ve just returned from a 3000 kilometre journey from the east coast of NSW to the far north western corner of the state and back again. Once you’re over the Great Dividing Range the inland landscape…Adventure Travel4 min read
Apr 21My kids are out of control and I’m proud of it.My kids are out of control. They always have been. They always will be. Out of MY control that is. They’ve grown into young adults now, so of course they’re out of my control. But they were out of my control when they were 3, and 7years old too. Does…Conscious Parenting3 min read